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Bethesda - Quizzical Looks

Dec. 15th, 2006

02:13 pm - Bethesda

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At 2.15 this morning I was woken up by some strange racket going on next to me. The time was all wrong for the alarm, and it wasn't the radio going. It took a few seconds to wake up enough to realise it was the mobile phone ringing and vibrating on the table next to me (and this is the first night I'd kept it switched on). I didn't recognise the number of the just-missed call, and was thinking about going back to sleep when I thought I'd look up the number in the phone book (once I found the right one).

Bethesda Hospital.

I called back, and it was the call that wasn't meant to come for a couple of weeks - Dad had detoriorated considerably during the night shift nurse's time, and it was time to come in.

On somewhere in the region of around 1.5 hours sleep, I was running just on adrenaline when I called the cab. One fun little $50 trip to Claremont later (since neither me or the driver had been here before), and I met up with Mum at the front doors waiting to be let in. We were told what's happening and then led through to Dad's room, so for the last coming-up-on-thirteen hours we've been sitting with him, waiting for the end. He showed some response to Mum and I talking in the early hours, I think, but now he doesn't even respond to the nurses helping him out.

I just had to get out for a little while since there's nothing I can do but wait, and find something I can do, which is type. I tried calling my holidaying aunts in Sydney, but nothing so far. One of Mum's cousins dropped in though.

But yeah, just a matter of waiting now, though I think he's hung on longer than was expected.

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From:orac_zen
Date:December 15th, 2006 06:25 am (UTC)
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:(

As...odd as it sounds, I hope the end is easy for him.

I'm sorry this is happening to you all.

*** hugs; prayers ***
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From:huntingdon
Date:December 15th, 2006 10:05 am (UTC)
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I'm sorry that it has come soon :(
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From:boywhocantsayno
Date:December 15th, 2006 11:02 am (UTC)
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I know it isn't easy - I was in the room when my grandmother died. I hope that when he does pass away, it's painless.

{{{hugs}}}
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From:pktrekgirl
Date:December 15th, 2006 11:48 am (UTC)
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So sorry to hear this. :(((((

I hope that he is not in pain...and that you and your family will be okay.

Thinking about you!!!!
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From:calliopes_pen
Date:December 15th, 2006 01:22 pm (UTC)
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*hugs you tightly*
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From:ulva
Date:December 15th, 2006 02:03 pm (UTC)
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The waiting is what it is. Nothing much that I can say other than *hugs* :(
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From:mollybarton
Date:December 16th, 2006 01:36 am (UTC)
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*hugs*
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From:vesta_sgc
Date:December 16th, 2006 04:08 am (UTC)
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Oh no.

Thinking about you.

**hugs**
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